I just want to say...I don't care so much about spoilers.
That's all. I think some people get a little too worked up about spoilers. It's not like knowing that Dick has blue eyes is really going to detract from your enjoyment of the book.
Mostly, spoilers matter in suspense. Heroes turned out to be easy to spoil because they spent almost the entire season making you wonder and created a lot of suspense. So I found myself caring about spoilers there.
In fairly epic fantasy, I find it hard to care much about spoilers.
I don't particularly care about Harry Potter spoilers. If you're purposefully out to spoil people I think that's pretty asinine, but don't let the OH MY GOD YOU SAID SOMETHING ABOUT SO AND SO BREATHING ON PAGE 360 THAT MEANS S/HE CAN'T BE DEAD YET AAAAAAAAAH people get to you.
That's all. I think some people get a little too worked up about spoilers. It's not like knowing that Dick has blue eyes is really going to detract from your enjoyment of the book.
Mostly, spoilers matter in suspense. Heroes turned out to be easy to spoil because they spent almost the entire season making you wonder and created a lot of suspense. So I found myself caring about spoilers there.
In fairly epic fantasy, I find it hard to care much about spoilers.
I don't particularly care about Harry Potter spoilers. If you're purposefully out to spoil people I think that's pretty asinine, but don't let the OH MY GOD YOU SAID SOMETHING ABOUT SO AND SO BREATHING ON PAGE 360 THAT MEANS S/HE CAN'T BE DEAD YET AAAAAAAAAH people get to you.
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Date: 2007-07-22 11:45 pm (UTC)Here's my thing -- I think a number of people like going into things with a blank slate and want to experience a book or a movie without the opinions or commentary of others to color their views. Or at least, I do. I'm ALL for discussion and exploration of movies, books, tv shows, etc -- I just want my first impressions and thoughts to be my own.
AND, lastly, I know you may not think that knowing that Dick has blue eyes is really going to detract from my enjoyment of the book -- but -- isn't that my call? Isn't it my enjoyment, as in.. you know, mine? :) I made the "eye color" comment as flip remark but it was mostly to point out that what YOU think is a spoiler may not be what I or anyone else thinks is a spoiler.
So, that's my bottomline -- it's not the person who has knowledge who determines what is and isn't a spoiler, it's the person who hasn't got that info.
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Date: 2007-07-22 11:58 pm (UTC)I have seen SO MUCH whining about spoilers over the last couple of days that it's a little irksome. It's one of those things that shuts down conversations. There comes a point where you're saying YOUR enjoyment is so important people can't talk about the topic AT ALL. (Ok, not that I care there, I don't actually want to get into Harry Potter conversation, either.)
Is that really a fair exchange? Is it really right to tell people not to talk about the book at all? Yes, lj-cuts are polite and appreciated (I love lj-cuts. People should use them more. There a TON of crap on LJ that I'd rather were behind a cut. Not just cause they're spoilers).
I suspect that the people who decided to step away from LJ for a couple of days to avoid spoilers were probably the smartest ones.
To be fair, I've also gotten kind of sensitive to spoiler talk ever since someone we know started griping about being spoiled for the LotR movies, and tried to shut down conversation about them. But even so, I'll be glad when a few days have passed and most of the people who care about spoilers will have finished the book.
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Date: 2007-07-23 12:13 am (UTC)The internet and in particular, things like your friends page, makes it difficult to go "I'm not listening..." and stick your fingers in your ears and leave the room.
However, the person who asked you to shut down the conversation about the LoTR movies was wrong -- they should have left the room.
Really, I think it all comes down to manners and being polite. The person who was rudely asking you to shut down a conversation should have behaved better.
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Date: 2007-07-23 07:57 am (UTC)I... They... What? They what?
This reminds me of the person who got pissed off because I spoiled the ending of 'La Bamba' for them.
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Date: 2007-07-23 01:21 pm (UTC)Farther down you talk about being asked to leave when people wish to discuss something and you don't want to know (as an option). Most of my friends would find it rude to exclude someone from a conversation. But personally, it wouldn't bother me. If I'm the one causing the road block to a discussion, then I'll usually bow out. In the end, I hope that I'm adult about it and I try not to impose my strict "NO SPOILER" policy on people. That doesn't mean that other people aren't freaking obnoxious about the entire thing and shouldn't be taken out and shot. I'm all for shooting namby-pambys.
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